Words of wisdom

Perceptual Kinesiology recognises that there is one energy source.
The individual is a unique expression of that source.
It is through the body's senses that we perceive our own unique universe.
When our spirit actively unites with our body consciousness, then great changes can occur.

- Liz Kozlowski


The body remembers, the bones remember, the joints remember, even the little finger remembers. Memory is lodged in pictures and feelings in the cells themselves. Like a sponge filled with water, anywhere the flesh is pressed, wrung or even touched lightly, a memory may flow out in a stream.

To confine the beauty and value of the body to anything less than magnificence is to to force the body to live without its rightful spirit, its rightful form, its right to exultation.

When women are relegated to moods, mannerisms and contours that conform to a single idea of beauty and behaviour, they are captured in both body and soul, and are no longer free.

- Clarissa Pinkola Estes


When you first begin questioning your core beliefs, you don't try to fix or change or improve them. You take a breath, then you take another. You notice sensations in your body, if there is tingling or pulsing or warmth or coolness. You notice what you feel, and even if you have always called this feeling "sadness", you are curious about it as if there is no word associated with it, no label describing it, as if it is the first time you have ever encountered it. Is it a lump of blue burned ashes in your chest? Does it feel like a hole in your heart? When you notice it, does it open or change?

This kind of questioning provides a bridge between who you take yourself to be and who you actually are. Between what you tell yourself based on stories from your past and what you sense based on your direct experience now. It allows you to distinguish between outdated familiar patterns and the current, living, truth.

- Geneen Roth


Deep work requires lots of rest.

- Leonie Wise


"Our trouble is, we believe what we think."

- Liz again, in conversation.




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It's not been the same since Kraft

Thanks to the power of the tweet, yesterday I found myself on the phone to this lady. She was looking for a volunteer for aversion therapy. For chocolate. Yes. That's right. Chocolate.

I have a huge problem with chocolate that's not even funny. In truth I've had a problem with eating in general ever since I gave up smoking 11 years ago. When in the past I would have lit a cigarette, now I eat. And I smoked 20 a day most days.

Getting chocolate out of my system won't cure that particular issue but I do think it would help with my sugar-induced highs and lows. Chocolate is the key.

When I was 9 months old my mother wrote of me that my favourite things were dogs, chocolate, music and staying in the bath. Charlie points out that I haven't changed in more than 40 years. True. So I am absolutely fascinated by the idea that I can change something that has always been so strong in me, by literally changing my mind.

I know that we create much of our own emotional reality. Which in turn, I believe, helps create our wider experiences. I also know that sometimes what you need comes to you.

So here I am, having spent a month or so discussing with a friend, hypnotherapy for emotional eating. Having spent the last few weeks so deep in resistance to change over which I have no control that I am exhausted, confused and physically aching from my own inflexibility (Louise Hay could use me in a text book right now). And this comes up.

It's not a solution. A way forward is for me to find at a deeper level. Yoga anyone? But it is going to be an interesting little snapshot of the power of the mind and I'm excited to find out what it's like. I'm hoping it has moved on from this.

And that she lets me sit on this (the sofa, not Emilia Fox):

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